10 Reasons Emotional Abuse is Traumatizing

By Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT

I share this article because I experienced verbal abuse throughout my life; from several bosses and in my marriage. I found it caused me a great deal of anxiety in relating to people.  In recent years when I mention asbergers some people say I use it as a crutch or they do not believe me.   I find dealing with people stressful and at times just want to be alone. – Greg

The Repercussions of Emotional Abuse

Emotional abuse has become more common and accepted in politics and the media. It’s widespread and under-reported, but should not be ignored. It can be more harmful than physical abuse, which is always preceded by emotional abuse. Emotional abuse includes mental, psychological, verbal, and financial abuse. Sometimes it’s overt and easily spotted, such as verbal attacks and threats, but other times it’s covert, subtle, or passive-aggressive.

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New estimate suggests most autistic adults in England lack a formal diagnosis

BY EMMET FRAIZER  

I can relate. I got my diagnosis at the age of 49. – Greg

Anywhere from 435,700 to nearly 1.2 million people in England may be autistic but undiagnosed, according to a study of primary-care records — an estimate that includes more than 9 in 10 autistic people aged 50 and older.

Living for so long without a diagnosis can have consequences — especially for mental health, says lead investigator William Mandy, professor of neurodevelopmental conditions at University College London in England. “If you don’t have the label,” he says, “you’re less likely to get the adaptations and the support that you might need.” read more