Cultural Differences

For the past several years I have been going to get my nails done at nail salon that is run by Vietnamese women.  I enjoy going and have developed a friendly relationship with one of the manicurists.  I find it easy to speak with her and I take an interest in learning about her and her culture. I find her to be kind, with a good work ethic and family oriented. In turn, I believe I treat her with respect and kindness.  I have also developed a friendly relationship with a professional massage therapist who is Chinese. Again, I feel safe with her and can be myself without judgement. Both of these women see me for me and are not put off by my Aspergers.

I have experienced a cultural difference between American women and the Asian women I have interacted with. I don’t want to generalize, but I have been able to develop a nice relationship with these Asian women without judgement which has helped me quite a bit. It has been a good experience to find companionship with people that are accepting and kind and allow me to be myself. 

I am currently dating a Vietnamese woman who is kind and accepting of me. She genuinely enjoys being with me, and I enjoy her company too.

– Greg

The Diagnosis Journey: A Guide for Seeking an Autism Assessment

by Ilia Walsh, M.S.Ed, MBA

For individuals and caregivers seeking information about autism and the potential for a diagnosis, the process can take several paths. Whether you are an adult considering self-diagnosis or seeking a professional evaluation, or someone wondering about the diagnostic options for a loved one, understanding the resources available to you and what your goals are will help you choose the best way forward. Below, we provide detailed insights and actionable steps to help guide you through this important decision.

Barriers to Receiving an Autism Diagnosis

First, let’s look at some of the challenges. For some, significant barriers still exist when seeking a formal diagnosis. Individuals may find themselves waiting months to years for a diagnostic assessment, and the associated costs and lack of transparency can make the whole process inaccessible for some. Many professionals who conduct evaluations lack training in neurodiversity-affirming care, rely on outdated information, or may use diagnostic tools that are not age-appropriate and do not adequately consider the diversity of experience. read more