by Sam Farmer
I can relate to a late in life diagnosis . I still struggle in the dating world with acceptance from others and do feel some low self esteem because to the reactions I get from ladies. I have a much better experience in being valued and accepted in my volunteer work. I still struggle with fitting in society box on what is normal to do. I try to honor the people that supported me over the years by being the best person I can. – Greg
As an adult living with a late autism spectrum diagnosis, I have come to view my life up to now as embodying three phases: partially informed, enlightened, and paying it forward.
I refer to the first stage of my life as “partially informed” because I was aware of my learning disability but not of my spectrum profile. Better one than none, though the missing puzzle piece did not help matters. While living for 40 years in a partially informed state of mind, the degree of self-unawareness, compromised self-esteem, and all of the unanswered questions as to why I faced the challenges and adversity that I did arguably left me in a fog. I had no idea that I was as unaware as I actually was. I did not understand the meaning of self-esteem, much less understand that my own was not far from hitting rock bottom.